Don't Get Mad - Get Aligned

Just because conscious creators know that thoughts create things doesn't mean we don't engage dark thinking when the occasion calls …

… like when we spot our ex with someone new (after he said he didn't have time for a relationship)

… or when the company restructure results in layoffs and pay cuts for staff (and bonuses for execs)

… or when the insurance company refuses to pay the hospital bills that we thought we were covered for.

It's easy (and natural) to start plotting and analyzing how to make things right when it seems we've been wronged.

Those types of thoughts are entirely appropriate – for a minute.

But you don't want to get stuck in them.

Because anything that's fueled by anger or revenge, or is focused on duking it out in a big battle, probably isn't a path you want to travel too far.

Instead, conscious creators know the best way to get even is to get aligned. That is, focus on what you do want. What would be a fabulous outcome here? How would you like to feel when all is said and done? Dial in on that and you're giving Universe something good to work with.

One of my support team members emailed the other day with the kind of news I wasn't excited to hear – basically telling me I was on my own, they weren't responsible, nothing they could do, indeed nothing I could do about it either. (That seriously sucks!)

I spent more than a few minutes feeling the injustice of it, prepping my argument and planning how to get them to step up and fix the issue they were responsible for – before I remembered that line of thinking wasn't taking us anywhere good.

How would I feel when this is resolved perfectly?

I'd feel at peace, relaxed, and satisfied. When I tune into that outcome now, it changes everything that happens next. This is the LOA savvy way to get what you want when other parties are opposed.

This doesn't mean we're acting like doormats and letting everyone take advantage of our peaceful nature. Rather, it means we know that getting back to good doesn't happen by holding angry thoughts.

So don't take the bait by picking up the fight. Instead, take a deep breath and remember how you want to feel – then let Universe handle the rest. (If it needs you for anything, it'll let you know via a hit of inspiration.)

Sometimes the best way to win the battle is to let go of it. (If you've ever let go to get ahead, tweet me loud & proud about it @goodvibecoach.)

This process doesn't take long to get results, but it does require awareness and vibration management skills to do it properly. Which is why not everyone does it.

We know that dark thoughts take us to dark places, so after you've had a chance to get those out of your system, give yourself a powerful redirect by lining up with what you want.

That's where happy endings come from.

Jeannette Maw is the Good Vibe Coach and founder of Good Vibe University.  Find more of her manifesting inspiration at Good Vibe Blog.