Solemate: Master the Art of Aloneness

Author Lauren Mackler believes aloneness is not a condition to be pitied. 

Before looking for your soulmate, you need to become the partner you seek.  Don't look for someone else to make you happy or fill your void; rather start with yourself and take responsibility for reclaiming your innate wholeness.

An erosion of our innate wholeness occurs through early conditioning.

If you're seeking that wholeness through somebody else, you're attracting from a space of desperation or fear of being alone.

(Tip on how to begin reclaiming your wholeness.)