The Difference Between Frustrated & Successful Manifesting
What's the strongest indicator of success in a manifester?
What's the critical difference between someone who gets what they want versus someone whose desire goes unfulfilled?
These questions were posed to me a couple different times last week, so it's been on my mind. Here's my take on the key differences between frustrated and successful manifesters:
- Not needing it
- Able to see past "reality"
- High vibration (finds ways to regularly feel good)
1. Not Needing It
We've talked before about how need equals resistance, and so what we feel most desperate about is also least likely to happen. This is why many notice that the "little stuff" happens swiftly and effortlessly, while the "big stuff" takes forever. It's because the "big stuff" matters more to us - we have a stronger "charge" on it, and that slows things up!
To become a powerful manifester, we want to release the need of getting what we want. Last week's Q&A post offers readers' favorite methods of letting go.
2. Seeing Past Reality
This is an easy one to get tripped up on, because reality is so in our face while our fantasies about dreams coming true seem so intangible and illusory.
But it's the ability to hook into a dream or desire (without becoming dependent on it) that brings it to fruition. So finding a way to visit more with the idea of what we want rather than the reality of what is, is another key differentiator between those who get what they want and those who don't.
3. High Vibration
Those who find a way to feel good no matter what have a huge leg up when it comes to getting what they want. Because they're automatically already in alignment to it, simply by being happy!
Playing the "I'll be happy when ... " game is a great way to sabotage your success. This is why cultivating the habit of appreciation is so powerful when it comes to increasing our manifesting odds. Appreciation, love and joy are high vibes to run, and puts us in nice alignment to what we want!
So tending to your vibe by finding the perspective and telling the story that feels better, remembering we don't need anything to happen in order to feel better now, and recognizing that we create reality by what we give attention to are three powerful tickets to amp up your manifesting success!
Jeannette Maw is the Good Vibe Coach and founder of Good Vibe University. Find more of her manifesting inspiration at Good Vibe Blog.